Anonymous messages sent to Kelsi Sparks the night she killed herself. Think twice before you send anon hate.
May you find peace wherever you are, and may the ones who brought this pain upon you follow in your footsteps. Their time will come. Even if they feel no guilt, even if they have no regrets, their time will come.
It’s been a while since you’ve been gone. We won’t forget you Kelsi…
It’s funny that you should reblog this, after publishing all that anonymous hate about Emily. Hypocrite.
Yes. Because I find it damn insulting. I would have used a misgendering example but MG is not trans. If you don’t get why I’m allowed to be offended and allowed to say that, you missed the point of the post.
We have to debate a case called “Forced Fatherhood” it’s worse than it sounds (click for high res)
What’s so bad about it?
You mean if a man doesn’t want a child while a woman does he’s forced? Unless the man EJACULATES INTO HER and (without her knowledge) IMPREGNATES HER and she decides to KEEP THE CHILD, then MAYBE he should pay child support.
I mean, what?! That’s my opinion tho.
The point is that, unlike women, men do not have any options if they’ve gotten someone pregnant yet don’t want to be parents. Obviously if it’s a divorce situation or something else where both parties consented to having a child, that’s different. But a one-night stand or casual relationship or failed contraception or paternity fraud or statutory rape? Men can be sued for child support even if they do not want the child, even if they are legally children themselves and thus were raped, even if they are not the father of the child, and they don’t have any recourse. Women have morning after pills, abortion, adoption, and safe havens if they do not wish to be parents; men have no options.
Men do have options, though. Not as many as women, I’ll agree. But they do. Like stepping up and being a father for one.
The father of my child just turned twenty. He doesn’t want anything to do with our son, that fine. I’m not going to force him to see him, but seeing as this is his son, he will help out. I’m not the only one that created this child. He can get off his lazy ass, quit doing unsanitary tattoos out of his house, quit doing drugs, and get a god damn job. I should have to be the only one that goes to school, and work, and take care of a newborn. He decided to fuck me, and decided not to tell me the condom broke. This is his fault also.
So to you, consent to sex is consent to parenthood?
When you put your dick in a girl, with or without protection, you know you’re chancing getting her pregnant. If you’re going to take that risk anyway, then yes.
If you’re going to gamble, you have to pay the price.
Does that belief hold for women as well? Consent to sex is consent to parenthood, ergo women who have sex with or without protection are chancing getting pregnant and have consented to parenthood?
Oh so he should step up and be a man when he is not the father?! See Idris Elba fiasco. I think this BS if the person doesn’t want to be a father he should have a say in the matter. And since it is not his body that will be bearing said child he’s kind of fucked from a physical aspect but in other area I think he should be able to say no. Another option he has aside from the BS stepping up shit. Is kill the child. I read stories of people who considered this because financially they could never afford a child, and so wouldn’t be able to and would end up in jail. In some cases the man was doing great work (i.e. charitable causes etc.) Also there was a pill or something for men that prevented pregnancy but that got blacklisted or some shit because feminists want to control men’s reproductive rights, the oppressive cunts. Of course in the end it should be whoever EARNS MORE pays child support but nope, female privilege all up in the child department. Men get no say and no rights. My ex GF sucked her ex husband dry child support even though she earned more than him.
I didn’t say anything about him not being the father and having to step up, you moron. If a man is the biological father, yes. He should step the fuck up and quit being a worthless piece of shit.
You don’t really know much about child support, do you? Here, let me break it down for you. First, child support is paid by the parent that does not have legal custody. Which means a woman could pay child support too. Second, child support is not a set amount to start with. It goes by the income of the parent that has to pay, and the amount of children they have to pay for.
As I’ve said, if you’re going to gamble, you need to accept the consequences.
So, do you support removing women’s right to abortion and safe haven laws? Because they need to “accept the consequences” too, by your argument.
Also, if you knew about child support as much as you pretended, you’d know it’s heavily biased in favor of mothers. Men have been forced to pay CS even when the court knew they weren’t fathers. It’s very easy for women to put men on the hook, but very hard for them to get off. In fact, France has outlawed DNA tests without a court order (and maybe 1% of applications for such are granted) and permission from the other parent. You can go to jail for up to a year.
Child support, as you just pointed out, isn’t primarily set with regard to supporting the child. Dave Foley still has the same payments to make as he did when he was on Newsradio. They were never revised down.
Child support isn’t about supporting the child, it’s about lining the state’s pockets. You did know that the state gets a cut of child support, along with a federal stipend, and they can use it to reduce welfare payments, right? Gosh, that sure sounds like a motive for them to give the lesser-earning parent custody so the other parent has to pay child support, regardless of whether said parent is actually a suitable custodian.
In 1996, San Luis Obsipo found that Nathan J. was responsible for child support. Nathan J was a 15-year old statutory rape victim. The 34 year old convicted rapist not only got child support, she got primary custody. Does that count as “accepting the consequences”? How deep does this rabbit hole go?
See, this problem is getting massively blown out of proportion due to the fact that it is perfectly legal for a young man who has fathered a child to entirely sign his rights to them away. And don’t tell me it’s not, because at least TWO of my male cousins have done it. While I do agree it’s an issue, it’s nowhere near as bad as it’s made out to be. Paper abortions are a thing, and they are the male proponent to regular abortions.
How much did they have to pay the lawyers? What was the mom’s position? Did she contest them signing away their rights? How old were the kids?
i truly feel very bad for everyone who hasn’t outgrown their offensive edgy humor stage you’re probably destined to be a shitty baby for life
Frankly my dear I don’t give a damn
OH GOD I LOVE THIS MOVIE
(re this post, i assume) the op’s post and their selfie were so funny, i thought maybe they were being ironic
what the hell is going on down there that you need to get “don’t laugh” tattooed above your dick???
how can anyone think that cis is a slur it’s just pointing out the obvious like hey ur cis
why yes, i am, congrats
i don’t know if i think of it as a slur… but i’ve never heard anyone who’s not sjw use it, that’s why it has bad connotations for me. same as using * after the word ‘trans’.
also i forgot how many % of people are trans, but i think it’s less than 1%? or maybe 3%? so because it’s actually so rare, i don’t think that the special word for people who are not trans is needed.
if you’re thinking about sending someone an ask about how reverse racist they are, just stop, think, find jesus, and don’t.
yeah seriously you don’t need the reverse,just say they were being racist
if i could vomit on your face i would
What a complete fucking goomp.
oh my god is that real that cant be real jesus christ
the only things im taking seriously are homosexual, heterosexual, bisexual, and pansexual
none of this fill in the blank romantic shit
i don’t take ‘pansexual’ seriously
i take “straight”, “gay”, “bi” and “other”. if you’re allo-, pan-, demi-, whatever else, i just think “eh, they’re “other”, w/e”